it's obviously completely different when a str8 male rapper uses it but even then i'm struck by how much it's used in a value-neutral sense, and often as the equivalent of "n*gga" - ie vicious slurs just used as substitutes for "men" and "women" one of the most prominent feminist publications around right now is called bitch. W/r/t "bitch", i can't think of a female rapper who doesn't use it as a positive term to describe herself and her female crew. this stuff folds in on itself like a tesseract but even so, you gotta dig that you, as a critic for a newspaper, are old establishment to a nineteen year old and what you consider to be representative of dumbfuck regressive square society don't mean shit to a kid raised on teletubbiesĪlso back when i was in college all the cool theater and lambda kids i ran with felt like faggot HAD been reclaimed and used it in the same sense that kids use nigga on the street today? i mean this stuff is regional to the point of whatever clique you run with i guess but it seems weird to me that it's still such a powerful hate word? it's not one i use in conversation but it's also not one that seems charged any more than say "retard" which is one of those dumb things that i occasionally let slip in conversation that shows the shittyness of my regional upbringing Kind of misses the point entirely he doesn't give a shit what it signifies to you because you're an old square. Which is why the "it's just a word that 4chan kids use to piss off old squares" argument is so dumb, because it's a word that signifies old squares and old bigots to me, and using it so much just makes tyler seem totally regressive and like an old square himself.